Watched this today…
Found my eyes were leaking (a bit) and I have to admit I felt a little envious of the joy being expressed.
Most of the time, we western-world folk do not express this much fun and happiness in our day-to-day lives. Or even weekly. Maybe not even monthly.
Sure, some people might. But most of us don’t due to habit, cultural acceptance, and generally because most people are bleeding from their hearts instead of singing.
We hurt, we try to keep our hurt to ourselves and we barely ever notice that everyone else around us is doing exactly the same.
This morning as I wandered around my flat getting ready for work, I realised that (for now) my interactions with depression are in recess.
I’ve got more energy than I’ve had in ages and I can actually get out of bed in the morning with relative ease. I’m starting to be much more excited about becoming a yoga teacher (OMG, I’ll be qualified at the end of the year!).
And yet, still… it’s possible to wander around and feel less than joyful for most of the day or week. Especially when doing a job I could care less about (except for getting paid).
My joy comes from my yoga classes, my nieces, cycling, and talking to my friends (most of them live far away).
But this morning I also realised I could add more joy into each day.
A little like the way BlissChick schedules time to dance regularly.
Because joy shouldn’t be something we experience infrequently like clinging to a life raft within a sea of unhappiness…
Then there’s Tricia’s latest post (a meme) – 6 things that make you happy.
There’s a world of difference between depression going away and actively seeking out the things that make you smile.
While the thrall of depression has lifted, the habits I formed to cope with that existence also need to be broken down. The staying in and not socialising. The having fewer expectations of my life. The not taking care of my appearance or what I eat. The not looking to the future… these are but a few.
In Tricia’s comments, I wrote my own 6 things that make you happy list (definitely in no particular order):
- Thinking about becoming a yoga teacher
- My fan girl night (meeting my celebrity crush earlier this year) – still makes me smile!
- My glorious nieces
- My yoga school’s spiritual home in north-east Thailand
- Snow skiing
- My wonderful friends (both virtual and IRL kinds)
It’s not a bad list, but if the meme had asked for 10 things, I might’ve come up a little short.
Which is ridiculous when there’s so many things to be happy about, right?
So. Here’s to the energy behind the wedding dancers in the video.
Even if we don’t actually break into dance as we wander throughour days, we each deserve the feeling that goes with this kind of celebration.
And I’ve decided the next step to climbing out of the dark, dank abyss of depression includes adding more activities into my life that are designed to tap into that kind of joy. Yes!
I’ll let you know how I go.